Penyesuaian Diri Wanita Terhadap Suami yang Menderita Penyakit Diabetes Militus Tipe II di Tembung

Abstract

This study aims to determine the self-adjustment of wsnita against a husband who suffered from type II diabetes mellitus disease in Tembung. Adjustment is an effort to make a satisfactory relationship between individuals with changes in their environment in order to be able to overcome conflict, frustration, feelings of discomfort arise as well as women more easily adjust to couples who suffer from chronic illness and still choose together and try to accept and understand the state of the husband so that achieved harmony and harmony between oneself and his environment. This study used a qualitative approach. The respondents from this study are as many as 2 people with age of respondent I 37 years and age of respondents II 30 years and 5 years of marriage age. Analysis of research data through interview techniques and observation techniques. The results of the study in terms of self-adjustment of respondents I and respondents II is the most dominant aspect of understanding is that both respondents are always looking for information about diabetes mellitus type II and food information that is suitable consumed by diabetics militus type II. This aspect arises because of the factors that affect the adjustment of respondents I and respondents II, the dominant factor is psychological factors because both respondents are not affected by diabetes mellitus type II and prefer to be grateful and think everything will be okay so avoid the depression and frustrating. Of these factors appear the stages - adjustment of respondents I and respondents II, while the dominant stages of respondents I and respondents II is the ability to overcome anxiety and stress, this stage successfully lived by both respondents because in times of stress both respondents prefer to submitting to God and telling the problems faced to the mother of each respondent. Judging from the aspect of adjustment, factors that affect self-adjustment and adjustment stage and review of the research analysis it can be stated that respondents I and respondents II have a form of adjustment self adjustive because both respondents can hide feelings of disappointment, anger and sad just to make the mind of each respondent's husband became calm so that the adjustment made by women against couples who have diabetes type II militus succeed and can create a harmonious relationship of husband and wife