Kepuasan Pernikahan pada Pria yang Pernah Bercerai

Abstract

Every human being longs for a harmonious home, especially in the early adult male who faces the task and stage of development as a father to start choosing a spouse and fostering a family. Marital satisfaction occurs because of the role of self and the couple that they run in marriage, does not rule out the possibility that when married someone must be able to deal with changes in the role that exists. When able to fit in and have the right partner then a marriage satisfaction will be achieved, but not all marriages end with all they expect. According to Hurlock (2002) divorce is the culmination of a poor marriage settlement, and what happens when the husband and wife are no longer able to find ways to solve problems that can satisfy both parties. After divorce many doubted that men can survive alone, many factors that encourage men to get married after divorce in the hope of getting marital satisfaction after divorce and re-married. This study aims to determine the satisfaction of marriage in married men after divorce. This research is a qualitative research by using purposive sampling technique. The respondents were three people and the data collection technique was the interview. The results showed that marriage satisfaction occurred due to the factor-factor fulfillment and aspects in marriage satisfaction itself. From the results of research the third subject experienced marital satisfaction because it has fulfilled aspects of the marriage satisfaction, but different from the first and second subjects who experience dissatisfaction in marriage. This is due to the absence of good two-way communication and the absence of efforts from the subject to improve the relationship.